Moe’s Sexuality Education in Schools

1.         Sexuality education (SEd) aims to help our young understand the physiological, social and emotional changes they experience as they mature, develop healthy relationships with the opposite sex and to teach them how to make responsible choices. It is premised on the importance of the heterosexual married family as the basic unit of society, and respect for the values and beliefs of the different ethnic and religious communities on sexuality issues.

2.         The goals of SEd are to:

(i)                 provide accurate and adequate knowledge on human sexuality and the consequences of sexual activity so that pupils are able to make informed decisions;

(ii)               impart intra- and inter-personal skills of problem-solving, decision-making and effective communication so that pupils are able to build responsible and rewarding relationships; and

(iii)             inculcate positive values and attitudes of sexuality so that pupils develop a respect for themselves and others as sexual beings, in line with the national value of the family as the basic unit of society.

 3.         The key messages of SEd are:

(i)         Build healthy futures for yourself, family and society.

(ii)        Healthy relationships based on love and respect are the foundation for strong families.

(iii)       Casual sex can lead to unwanted pregnancies, STIs/HIV and AIDS which can harm and hurt your loved ones.

 You may click here for more information on MOE’s Sexuality Education.

 Overview of MARSILING SECONDARY SCHOOL Sexuality Education Programme for 2010

4.         Sexuality education in schools is taught in both the formal curriculum and co-curricular programmes. These are covered under four main themes: Human Development, Interpersonal Relationships, Sexual Health and Behaviour, and, Societal Influences.

Formal Curriculum

5.         The curricular subjects in which topics on sexuality are incorporated include

i.          Science  click here

ii.              Civics and Moral Education click here

For more information on the above subjects, you may wish to click here.

Co-Curricular Programmes

Growing Years (GY) Programme:

i.                “The Teenage Years” (Lower Sec) package

ii.              “Sense & Sexuality” (Upper Sec) package

6.         The values and attitudes of our youth towards sexuality are increasingly being shaped by their peers, exposure to the media, popular culture and the internet. Adolescence is a complex stage in life as the adolescent attempts to find his/her own identity and often struggles with new social relationships. The period of middle adolescence (generally from 15 – 17 years old) can be a turbulent period for adolescents. The gap between physical and emotional/cognitive maturity may result in a tendency to act on impulse, experiment with various activities (including sexual activities), sometimes without understanding the unpleasant consequences that may arise from such experimentation. The need for peer acceptance can be overwhelmingly strong, and hinder one’s ability to act responsibly.  Given the pressures faced by the middle adolescent from within themselves and from peers, it is important to build a strong sense of self-worth, personal convictions and an understanding of the possible consequences of sexual behaviour.  

7.         Through “The Teenage Years” and “Sense & Sexuality”, secondary students will have opportunity to develop a positive self esteem, build their character, expand their understanding and repertoire of skills to deal with various issues related to sexuality, which are of prime concern at this age.

At Marsiling Secondary School, the following lessons from the GY series will be covered in 2010: 

Target

Levels

Topics/Lessons

What pupils will learn:

Time Period

Sec 1

Interpersonal relationships - Healthy Relationships (within family, between friends and persons of opposite sex)

The underlying value for healthy

relationships is respect

Semester 1

Sec 1

Gender Differences

Understanding what is feminine

and masculine

Semester 1

Sec 2

Social Contract

-Public Display of Affection

Appropriate behavior in our society

Semester 2

Sec 2

Consequences of sexual activity

Pregnancy/Abortion

Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs)/HIV & protection against STI/HIV

How to evaluate the consequences and issues relating to abortion and pre-marital sex

Semester 2

Sec 2

Public Display of Affection

Understand that certain public display of affection is not considered proper behaviour in our society

Semester 2

Sec 3

Healthy Relationships (within family, between friends and persons of opposite sex)

 

Discern between healthy and unhealthy relationships

Postponed

Sec 3

Coping with rejection and broken relationships

Recognise that break-ups may happen in relationships and that one can break up without hurting others.

Postponed

Sec 4

Physical intimacy

Recognise that petting is an act of physical stimulation

Postponed

Sec 4

Influence of  the Media on sexuality

State the role of the media to inform, educate and entertain and discuss its influence on their values and attitudes towards sexual behavior and involvement.

Postponed

 8.         INFORMATION FOR PARENTS

i.                    Parents can opt their children out of the entire sexuality education programme or for individual topics, talks or workshops.

ii.                  Parents who wish to opt their children out of the Growing Years (GY) Series need to complete an opt-out form. This  form (Click on preferred language: EL, CL , ML, TL) will be distributed to parents at the start of the year and is also downloadable from the school’s website. A hardcopy of the form, duly completed and signed, is to be submitted to the school office by 19 March 2010.

iii.                Parents who wish to opt their children out of the Breaking Down Barriers Programme (BDB) need to complete an opt-out form. This form will be distributed to parents prior to the start of the programme and is also downloadable from the school’s website. A hardcopy of the form, duly completed and signed, is to be submitted to the school office by 19 March 2010.

iv.                 Parents can attend the sexuality education programmes by external providers with their children if they wish to. Parents should contact the school to make the necessary arrangements.

v.                   For more information, please contact the school at 12 Marsiling Road Singapore 739110 or Tel: 6894 1413  if you would like to discuss or seek clarifications about our school’s sexuality education programme.

9.          Breaking Down Barriers (BDB) Programme        

The Breaking Down Barriers (BDB) is a programme developed by Health Promotion Board, in collaboration with the Ministry of Education for all Sec 3 students. The programme focuses on Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs)/HIV education and aims to raise awareness of the modes of transmission of the different STIs/HIV, as well as the modes of protection. Students are taught skills such as decision-making, assertiveness and negotiation in order to say no to sex and negative peer pressure. Abstinence as the best option for teens remains a key message.

At Marsiling Secondary School, the BDB programme will be implemented as follows in 2010: 

Topics/Lessons

What pupils will learn:

Time Period

Mass Talk by HPB appointed vendor

·        Awareness of the different STIs and HIV/AIDS

·         Modes of transmission

·      Modes of protection, specifically the use of   condom

 

Semester 2

Class-based Lesson 1: Decision-Making

·      Consequences in any decision they make regarding sexual intercourse

·      Decision-making is a process that can be learnt

·      It is important to have correct and accurate information to make the right decisions regarding one’s sexual health

·      How to make decisions that will reduce the risk to their sexual health.

 

Semester 2

Class-based Lesson 2: Assertiveness

·         What is assertive behaviour?

·         How can one respond to persuasion assertively

 

Semester 2

Class-based Lesson 3: Negotiation

·      How to negotiate one’s way out of a negative situation by applying skills learnt from Lesson 2

·      Assessing situations to aid the control of impulses in sexual behaviour

·      Revision of risk reduction for STIs/HIV (learnt earlier in mass lecture).  

Semester 2

 10.         Talks and Workshops Conducted by External Providers  

Name of External Provider: Focus on The Family Singapore Ltd

 

Programme Title: No Apologies

Synopsis

No Apologies aims to equip young people to recognise the relationship between love and sex, and identify the consequences associated with premarital sexual activity and benefits of saving sex for marriage. The programme also empowers young people with good decision-making skills and encourages them to abstain from premarital sexual activity so as to live life with no apologies.

 

Learning Objectives:

  • Pupils will be aware the meaning of healthy relationships
  • Pupils will be able to identify the consequences of premarital sexual activity
  • Pupils will be able to understand the importance of abstinence

Date of Programme: 26th May 2010

 

Target Level(s):  Sec 2 students

 

Format of Programme 

This is a 4 hours workshop conducted in a class. 

Resources for Parents (if applicable):

 

Opt-out Form for Parents: